Our Team
CHARLIE Lake - COACH
I have been working with couples for nearly 20 years as a wedding officiant and Prepare Enrich Facilitator. I am also a Certified Life Coach. I use a non-invasive approach that focuses on listening and asking strategic questions. I am extremely personable and have a calm, kind, humourous, and non-judgemental disposition. I am passionate about helping couples (and individuals) live up to their fullest potential and strategically overcome any obstacles standing in their way.
I invite members of the 2SLGBTQIA+ community to the front of the line. Also, couples raised in conservative fundamentalism, I’m here for it (and you)!
I am currently working on my PhD in Auckland, New Zealand. I am a queer, white settler who goes by she/her pronouns.
When I’m not marrying or coaching couples, you can probably find me studying in a coffee shop trying desperately to finish my next degree. In my off time, I enjoy exploring nature with my amazing partner, road tripping to surf with friends, listening to my favourite musicians play live, or making my next travel plans.
ERIKA ENNS - COACH
I am a certified Prepare-Enrich coach and have been coaching with this program since 2020, in addition to my work as a wedding officiant, which I’ve been doing since 2015. I love working with couples as they walk towards their wedding day. It’s a great time to have really important conversations that help lay the groundwork for a strong marriage. I think coming to coaching is the bravest thing you can do and it’s one of the very best investments you can make in your marriage.
I’ve been married to my partner since 1997. We’re raising two great kids and currently watching them launch into the world and it’s weird! Looking back on all the stages of parenting, every one is significant, even this one as they are leaving. Every anniversary in our marriage is a milestone, even if it’s celebrated in the market getting groceries.
When I’m not working, you can usually find me with my nose in a book. I love to spend time with my family and find new things to inspire me. I love writing and exploring new places, spaces and ideas. I’m curious and love a good conversation with a new friend.